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This year I've vowed to hoot and holler and act like a kid again for Halloween. Last year's holiday was somber, since we'd just lost my daughter-in-law Mari Lou Laso-Elders. Those close to her remember that autumn, and especially Halloween, always was her favorite time of the year. She used to squeal, my son claims, the first time she saw what she called "punkies." Last year I didn't even go to the costume dance at my apartment complex.
This year, though, I'm gonna go...and, yes, in costume! I won't reveal yet what it is, but it's a trek down Memory Lane for me, complete with a piece of memorable jewelry given to me by my son when he wasn't yet an adolescent! I'll be posting photos next week. My boyfriend promises to appear in costume as well.
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| Killin' it! |
In the meantime, my aerobics class a week ago began our annual gyrations to the themes from "The Addams Family" and "Ghostbusters," as well as "Monster Mash" and "Purple People Eater." Today, in honor of the holiday spirit, I wore my special Halloweeny knee socks. Last night exercise and crafts instructor Sue Burchfiel introduced a new tune, one well-remembered by many of us...Creedence Clearwater Revival's "I Put a Spell on You." Here it is (if you're not remembering all that well) live from Woodstock:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zwCALR8ZAm8
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| Valerie Ellison chooses autumn leaves. |
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| Sue Burchfiel and I show off our craftiness. |
It certainly seems that Halloween (and maybe my boyfriend, too) has put an early spell on me. I'm entranced with autumn. Today in crafts class we fashioned "pumpkin pots," to hold plants, or....candy corn! I'm not known to be a craftsy woman, but even I can paint a pot. Some of my fellow residents here at H-W decided on a more general autumn theme. Me, I went for goofiness.
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| Ooh, ooh, ooh...what a little paint and glue can do! |
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| We enjoy a well-seasoned rec room! |
My horoscope today reminded me that mystic Thomas Merton wrote, "Happiness is not a matter of intensity, but of balance, order, rhythm and harmony." So far today has been harmonious indeed. I might even treat myself to a bedtime cup of tea...with a little brandy, just for autumn flavor!
One of my favorite stories that I have written for Chicken Soup for the Soul:
http://www.chickensoup.com/book-story/33090/tea-for-two
Tea for Two
"Every problem has a gift for you in its hands." --Richard Bach
My sequined purple satin princess costume remained in its tissue
paper wrappings on the top shelf of my bedroom closet that Halloween evening.
Dressed instead in my pink rosebud flannel pajamas, I perched on the window
seat and watched the neighborhood witches, ghosts, and cowboys scurrying by. I
tried hard not to cry. After all, I was six, not a baby anymore.
Daddy had taken my unaffected older sister and little
brother to Grandma’s house for a party earlier that evening, leaving Mama and
me home alone. I’d finished reading all the stories in the newest edition of “Children’s
Activities. I’d even tired of cutting out paper dolls from the old Sears
catalog, and longed to be outside. Mama had promised me a special treat, but I
couldn’t imagine what could replace the thrill of joining the troops of
children wandering door to door in the autumn twilight with their rapidly
filling pillow slips. No Hershey bars, candied apples or popcorn balls for me
this year, I knew. I didn’t care, I told myself, because though the itching had
ceased, I had yet to regain my appetite anyway.
Mama had turned on the Philco radio in the kitchen, and I
heard the Andrews sisters warning “Don’t sit under the apple tree with anyone
else but me.” My sister was probably bobbing for apples right now at Grandma’s
house, I thought.
“O.K.,” Mama called, “Time to get dressed!”
Glancing down at my pajamas, I wondered what she could mean,
but scooted off my seat and trudged to the kitchen. On the back of one of the
chrome dinette chairs hung Mama’s fur chubby, a kind of short jacket that
represented the essence of elegance to me those days. I used to love to watch
Mama get dressed for special evenings, in her fluffy chiffon dresses, always
topped by the chubby.
“Put it on,” she said, pointing to the jacket. “We are going
to play tea party, and I am going to be the hostess, while you will be my
guest.” She draped a string of pearls around my neck, as I shrugged into the
jacket. I noticed that the table had been set with her best Blue Willow cups
and saucers, and that an empty platter had been placed next to the toaster.
Though I could not venture all the way outdoors, Mama opened
it a crack so I could at least knock on the outside, right below the big
black-lettered Quarantine sign.
“Oh, Miss Terri, it’s
so good of you to call this evening. It’s tea time,” she announced. “And even
though you are my guest, I’m going to ask you to make the meal, since you have
such a special touch with cinnamon toast.”
I’d seen the bakery truck make its delivery earlier, and had
wondered what had been left on our doorstep. Now Mama opened the bread box and
pulled out a loaf of sliced raisin bread. She placed the sugar bowl, the butter
dish and the red tin of cinnamon on the counter, and lifted the chubby from my
shoulders. Then she opened her Searchlight Recipe Book to page 44, handed me
the yellow plastic measuring spoon set, and said, “Let’s see how you do reading
that recipe.”
I was the best reader in my class, so I stumbled only on
“substitute” and “proportion” as I read aloud the instructions.
“Cinnamon Toast: Spread freshly toasted bread with butter or
butter substitute. Spread generously with sugar and cinnamon which have been
blended in the proportion of 1 teaspoon cinnamon to ½ cup sugar.—The Household
Searchlight”
I paused, and looked up. “Generously? Searchlight?”
Mama smiled. “Generous is giving more than you really need to, giving
from the heart, not the purse. And searchlight is a big flashlight,” she
explained. “It lights up everything to make it easier to see and
understand.” I nodded. So the recipes were
like searchlights, making it easier for Mama and me to understand how to cook. And
we needed to do it from the heart. So I could put in a little extra sugar, just
like Mama did.
While I watched the raisin bread brown in our two-sided
toaster, Mama put her tea kettle on to boil, and told me a story about the
birds on the Blue Willow china. She said that an angry Chinese father had been
trying to catch his daughter who was running away with a boyfriend. Before he
could catch them, they had been transformed into birds and flew away together.
I rubbed my finger across the birds on the saucer.
“When you grow up, your father won’t chase away your
boyfriends,” she said with a little laugh. “And now that you’re learning to
cook, it won’t be too much longer before you are grown up for every day, not
just for Halloween.” I smiled. It was true. I was learning to cook.
Though I hadn’t been hungry all day long, the smell of the
cinnamon sugar seemed to reawaken my appetite, and I ate my entire slice and
half of Mama’s, and even managed a swallow or two of my milk tea. When my
sister returned later that evening with the candied apples that Grandma had
sent, I accepted one, but insisted I wasn’t really hungry, since I had cooked
and eaten a meal earlier. When she looked doubtful, Mama just nodded in
affirmation.
“She made a lovely
tea,” she said.
Mama’s prediction came true, too, as I became engaged just a
dozen years later. And at my wedding shower in 1955 she presented me with a
black leatherette bound Searchlight Recipe Book, just like hers. I turn the yellowed pages today to Page 44,
and again recall the delicious aroma of cinnamon toast as I remember the year
that, through my mother’s unwavering generosity, trick or treat became tea for
two.
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